How to set background color of grid head row

how to set background color of grid head row?
the second is the vertical cell border that which can not see, it is so thin, i want to config the border of the header columns and cells.

You may try to use the setStyle() method:
https://docs.dhtmlx.com/api__dhtmlxgrid_setstyle.html
its’ first parameter allows changing the style of your grid header.