Unfortunately it is not recommended to combine the js files of the components from the different editions (pro/std) and different versions.
You may try to attach the files of the dhtmlxGrid PRO 4.1 and after that include the files of the dhtmlxWindows std 4.5, but in case of any conflict I may only suggest you to use the dhtmlxSuite PRO.
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